Hey,

Yes had all blood work done. This has come out normal! My saliva testosterone was really high but serum was normal. They measured all my hormones.

I picked my OB and hospital about 6 months ago and we have been saving like crazy. We weren’t planning on doing this for a few more years though so it has come as a shock and we will have to save more stringently. Concerned about OB as I really would like a non intervention water birth (birthing vaginally will help vulvodynia and c-section reeks havoc with the bladder in people with I). And I know OB’s like to do things their way. The one I have chosen seems to be happy to do what I want though. Typical Antiphospholipid pregnancies only carry to 35weeks.

I really don’t want to start doing OPK and charting bbt if we can help it as I am the obsessive type and I would just stress out too much over it and reduce my chances further. Were just going to have sex a lot I think to start with and try to have fun with it.

Do you know of anything that could theoretically improve the chances of conceiving a boy? We don’t want to pass on these “female” issues any further it has to stop at me! Lucky men, they don’t get any of this crap!

The subject that has been posted there was meant to be the code you have to put in to post! sorry.