You are both right. Funny isn't it when it comes to a medical professional dealing with something so important that I even questioned it. What was I thinking? If it didn't feel right today it is not likely to get better.

Butterfly - I love the plumber analogy! LOL. I can't believe the insensitivity of your first Ob/Gyn. One would hope that someone interested in this particular field of medicine would have some compassion for the journey their patients have gone through before they even get to their rooms.

Satya - I know exactly what you mean. On the way home this afternoon I was wondering if it was worth it all etc etc. I feel better now I have come home and cleaned up my whole house (weirdo therapy I know) and know that you are totally right.

Heaps of baby luck to you both and thank you for your sage advice. I am cancelling that next appt tomorrow and going to find another one.