that is one of the reasons why I have 4.9 years between my two girls.

The ms was not so bad with DD2 as it was with DD1.
With DD1 I was much like you but with DD2 it really felt like a walk in the park compared to DD1. I did have a very sensitive gag reflex with DD2 though. So while I still had my head in the toilet bowl most days at least once or twice. I didn't have the crippling nausea.