thread: BD around (but not on) O day

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
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    BD around (but not on) O day

    Hello everyone,

    I thought my O day was coming up this weekend, but I'm tracking my BBT on FF and it has detected that O happened three days ago! (Not a lot of CM this cycle, so that didn't tip me off.) We DTD on the two days before O and the two days after O - but missed O day completely because I wasn't expecting it!

    Just wondering if anyone can offer advice or experiences about BDing before and/or after O, but actually missing O day for various reasons. Any stories of conception under these circumstances?

    TIA!
    Last edited by lee09; October 9th, 2010 at 10:47 AM. : spelling

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2005
    Blue Mountains
    5,086

    I'm sure you'll hear loads of success stories We swayed for a girl with #2 by dtd 2 or 3 days before o and that was it. You'll prob find even fertility friend will say you have a high chance of success with that timing. Don't stress good luck!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    2,037

    My DD is the result of DTD a day after O

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    Perth
    3,686

    Definitely possible! Girly spermies live longer on the journey anyway, up to 5 days actually!

    Remember that although Fertility Friend is pretty accurate, it relies on you entering your fertility signs correctly (and taking your temps accurately) so it could be out by a day or two anyway. The month I fell pregnant with DD, Fertility Friend rated my chances of pregnancy pretty low and hey presto, we were UTD. We DTD 5 days before and on they day I O'd and I was using digital ovulation tests.

    Good luck!
    Last edited by Taurean; October 9th, 2010 at 12:24 PM.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    1,488

    Definitely a real chance! We DTD on CD10, I ovulated on CD14, and we conceived our DD.
    We are planning to gender sway for a girl next time, so we will be DTD 3-4 days before O.

    Good luck!

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
    2,268

    Babe, my last 3 pregancies were conceived WAY out of "O" range!!!!

    Seriously, way out. There is ALWAYS a chance babe.. xoxoxoxo

    Umm, I almost forgot! My last 4 were conceieved way out of range!!!!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    Yep we dtd on CD11, ovulated CD15 which resulted in the current little bundle I'm carrying

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
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    DS is a result of thinking it was ok 4 or 5 days before O. That and the complete lack of any pregnancy symptoms is part of the reason I didn't get a HPT until I was 8 weeks or so ...

    The other two were just the combination of O+alcohol+nookie.

    I'm actually a good example of the opposite of what they say for timing it for gender

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
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    Yeah, this one we were a way off, I think. I think we dtd 4 days before, 2 days before, and 2 days after I O'd. One of them worked