thread: BFN but no AF!!!??

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Country Victoria
    1,991

    Hi There!

    Although it is so soon don't rule out the possibility of being pg either... with DD I went off the pill, got my period once then I was pg. I also had alot of strange am I aren't I with the HPT until one day there it was a dark BFP. We were not charting or anything, I had no idea about the whole ovulationg thing when we tried for DD, we were just doing the BD and hoping for the best, and may I say we did not do it that often, just must have been the right time!

    Good Luck.

    Deanne.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    374

    Yes when you ovulate your CM is like egg whites, but to be honest I could never tell what was going on by my CM. I got pg my second cycle after coming off the pill, that was the first month I did temping but I think it was just luck with the timing that me charting.

    I agree it does take some of the fun out of it when you're like "Okay let's have sex now I think I'm ovulating!" Not very romantic. I wouldn't worry about doing it every single day, just relax and let it happen. Easy for me to say I know.

    PS. Before I got my BFP I had cramps and tingles down my back every now and then which was strange for me, so your symptoms could be positive!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    hey there kirstin! i went to the dr's today.. i had to go for something else and she asked how iw as going.. told her i was nearly 2 weeks late.. she did a urine test and it was neg. she said if i dont have my AF in the next 2 weeks to come back and she would re test.. if nothing then send me for a blood test.

    im totally convinced that my AF is just over due... and out of wack..

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Melbourne, ready to meet peeps IRL
    2,221

    Just thought I would let you know that this is happening to my sister ATM too she got told by her Doctor that it very normal for ladies to miss cycles completly after going to the pill.... I know not very helpful but there you have it....

    BTW it can take awhile after getting of the pill to get UTD it took us ages 18 mth for DS 2yrs for DD1 but only 3 mth for DD2... They say to go to the doctors after a year of trying... We got UTD with both DS and DD after going to get BHL's tested and I got checked out must have given his little fellas the kick in the butt they needed....

  5. #5
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    Jan 2008
    Central Coast NSW
    2,160

    Well this cycle is over for me. After 43 day I got AF at 1am this morning. Very heavy and extremely painful (more so than usual) especially in my back. At least I can look forward to cycle #10 now! Good luck for you Amsta.

  6. #6
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    Oct 2005
    1,377

    Controlfreak-EEeek about the pain. I hope that it wasnt a long painful AF for you. Sending you heaps of sticky vibes for this cycle.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Berwick, Melbourne
    947

    Amsta what is happening with you now? I am having a similar situation and only came off the pill 3 or 4 months ago as well. Only I had 2 BFNs and then got a very very faint BFP yesterday which was 6 days after AF was due...went to drs and had blood test...result showed HCG up but only just up (it was 24) so dr not prepared to say I am pregnant or not. SO confused...when we fell pregnant with our DD, I had been off the pill 1 month and fell first time we had unprotected sex, which if I AM pregnant right now, it will be the exact same situation only we waited a bit longer. Grrr...it's so frustrating huh.