thread: BFN but no AF!!!??

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    Hey there girlies.. great to hear from you again..
    i wrote an email back last night but the website went down! as for my symptoms.. my boobs are tingly.. and every time i get the tingle i feel myself taking a look round my shoulder to give em a push almost like i expect them to push back! .. just for the record they dont hahaha!so i can sympathise with you alana.. coz every time i get this feeling that ive never haed before.. (usually my af comes with a sharp cramp.. moodiness.. then bleeding and nothing else) thats why i keep grabbing my boobs coz i think im sooo confused and doubtful! hahahaha!
    i counted this morning and it will b 9 weeks on tuesday comming since i had the first day of my period!
    great news rach.. i have my you in my thoughts for saturday i am very positive you will get your answer you have been craving..

    off to the dr's this afternoon at 5pm.. so bring on 5pm.. although im worried that the u rine test will be neg.. considering it will b taken during the afternoon. i havent done a test since last saturday.. hoping a blood test will show something to give me an answer as to why its been nearly 9 weeks since my af! ill feel like a fool if im not pregnant.. and kinda scared as to why i am not getting my af when i defo ovulated.
    fingers crossed and im sorry about this post.. alot of things going through my mind today.. coz i dont want to feel like an idiot.. but on the other hand why am i getting symptoms ive never had?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    also.. ive been doing work outs.. and having loads of sex to bring on my AF.. nothing..

  3. #3
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    Nov 2007
    Where we swim in glitter and play on rainbows
    630

    Smile Goodluck :)

    Hey Amsta,
    Goodluck for today, fingers crossed
    Will be thinking of you

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    374

    Well Amsta?? I'm hanging to hear how you went at the Doc?!?!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    hey there girlies.. as you are well aware went to the dr yesterday afternoon.. dr said that i definetly ovualted this month.. and that i had symptoms of being UTD but the urine test was negative.. werid!
    sooo she has sent me to the pathology to do a blood test and said taht commonly it may not show in a urine test.. so any way trying the blodo test thing and will get the results this afternoon as she is pushing them through as urgent! yay!
    alternatively we will do an ultra sound if its still neg..
    im kinda worked up at the moment.. im in soo much doubt at the moment that im even pregnant now that the urine test is neg.. but no AF! what the? and cramping... and sore boobies.. been really moodie.. and its funny on the trip home i started to try and thinka bout my symptoms (this can be dangerous coz u start to look into things) but DH is going up to indy this weekend and im really emotional about him going.. (ie indy girls haha) im never like that.. i am usually yay go ill see u on sunday! also we were at a bbq and someone was smoking outside and i could smell it from inside.. then DH passed wind (sorry TMI) and i cud smell it and nearly choked on my breaky hahaha and he cudnt smell it!
    ahhhhh i dunno this afternoon will tell but the dr was very interested in my blood type coz she didnt had this in her records.. so she is getting that today as well. i was discussing this with DH coz i told him and he said that maybe that could have something to do with my bloody type and his clashing???
    also i said to DH this was the first month we gave it ago.. surely we wudnt b.. (i guess trying not to work myself up) and he said there are plenty of people that are UTD after the first time.. so i think he is being really supportive
    rach how are you going????
    and alana.. how is your little bubble going.. u got your scan soon?
    kirstin thanks for following my sarga.. hopefully it will have a result soon..
    any more info would be great ladies !!!

  6. #6
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    Sep 2008
    Cranbourne, Victoria
    89

    GOSH - this has been a whirl wind of events for you, I cant believe you have had to go through all this. How many days passed your due period are you??
    Hopefully this afternoon will give you all the answers...

    Yeah Im not going too badly, havnt really coped many of the symptoms yet, just really tired and a bit crampy. Im really worried and until I get a scan and see or hear that it is in the uterus and not the tube I cant stop worrying. I have got my scan on the 3rd of November. So I am really eexcited

    Let us know what your results come back as, its so bizarre everything except the blood test is like you are pregnant.

    I wish you so much luck

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    thanks alana.. my period was due the 30th so i am 24 days over due.. which means i am in day 52 of my cycle..
    it is werid.. but im trying to think that im not pregnant coz i dont want the disappointment.. other than that i have no idea what is going on.. lets hope this afternoon brings more news!!! dr said effectively if i ovulated on the 29/30 sept (i think that was the date)i should have my af by now! and the spotting and cramping is a good sign..
    if it is neg then she said we may look into an ultra sound to see if there is any thing there.. or if there is something else going on..
    werid tho coz my other AF's have been fairly regular.. either a few days out.. or a week. not nearly a full month hehehehe
    alana im sure things are fine and it is only natural to worry until you see that little heart beat.. and hey i wouldnt be complaining if u havnt got symstoms.. although this can make you feel like its not really happening.. its like praying for your af you pray for symptoms so it feels real..
    i have great faith that every thing is going fine for you and its only a few more days really till your scan
    oxoxoxox

  8. #8
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    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
    2,881

    Hi Amsta,

    Just wondering why the doc is so sure you ovulated. Did you have an ultrasound? As far as I know ultrasound combined with a BT is the only way to be sure that you have actually ovulated.

    Try not to get your hopes up too much. I've seen a number of women in the same position as you and almost all of them turn out to be not pregnant - just a wacko cycle. I have of course seen the odd one that has turned out to be pregnant - sometimes all is well and sometimes it is not.

    Best of luck. I hope you get the result you are looking for.