Maybe it's because I always wanted 4 I'm flat out keeping up with 2 a part of me likes what we have but feel were missing a child, maybe it's because I am a third child and feel if my parents didn't get my mums tubes retied and had me I wouldn't exist so what if I'm missing out on another child that's meant to exist if that makes sense I don't think I want 4 though just 3 but we are barely getting by now and hubby is done we won't have anymore until both kids are in school anyway I would want one on one time with baby but I'm also studying and won't finish for 3 yrs and then plan on doing another degree after my kids are DS 2.5 and DS just turned 4 I'm 27 and hubby 30 so I have time still to have kids but my limit is having kids before 35 I recon I'd be more comfortable before 33