How true this article is....
I think we make more of a deal out of sex whilst ttc than not. Non TTC sex is more exciting as its not staged. But we figure if its going to be staged we might as well make it nice, so lately we'll make sure the atmosphere is perfect. By that I mean, we both groom and make sure we look and smell good, we'll light candles and burn incense, and recently we've rediscovered how music sets the mood too. Other ways to make it special is to keep the sponteniety going by either not telling your partner, or putting it on a calendar so it doesn't have to be mentioned but you both know, then you have to work out who's going to make the first moveWhy not spark some romance, take the picnic blanket into the back yard (if you have kids, once they are asleep in bed), a candle or two (be sure not to set the place on fire) and have dessert under the stars, touch base emotionally and then when you come back inside I'm sure you'll both be in the mood. Have a bath together, fill the bathroom full of candles and wash each others backs. You'd be suprised how a little bit of romance can keep the spark alive! And whatever you do don't make refrence to making babies, sperm, eggs or TTC LOL as they are sure to kill the mood LOL!
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Cailin


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Why not spark some romance, take the picnic blanket into the back yard (if you have kids, once they are asleep in bed), a candle or two (be sure not to set the place on fire) and have dessert under the stars, touch base emotionally and then when you come back inside I'm sure you'll both be in the mood. Have a bath together, fill the bathroom full of candles and wash each others backs. You'd be suprised how a little bit of romance can keep the spark alive! And whatever you do don't make refrence to making babies, sperm, eggs or TTC LOL as they are sure to kill the mood LOL!
You don't wear them for very long anyway LOL!
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