Hmmm, my first thought was to tell you to poas. But it may be too early. Personally, I'd "have" to poas - just because I couldn't help myself

When AF has visited me during the past year it did vary a bit in length and heaviness, but was still mainly consistent on the whole. However I know other ladies our age on BB have noticed a change in their periods as they approach 40-ish. So that could explain your lighter than normal AF.

Then again, I thought I'd got AF when I was actually pg with this bub. Turned out my progesterone levels were playing up and causing light bleeding, but I had about 5 days where I thought I had AF until I twigged something wasn't quite right (body temp consistently high and my light AF just wasn't normal). And tested I got a BFP.

Sorry I don't have any wise words ... not sure if you're hopiing for a BFP or not, but hope you get your answer soon!