I was on and off the pill for 9 years until 2006.

Our DD was conceived without planning using withdrawal method of conception (note - it doesn't work as contraception!!). Although an amazing and blessed surprise, it was a surprise! I always thought it would be difficult for me to conceive from my miscarriage in 05, and the fact that I tract my cycles and they ranged between 20 - 45 days. They were never on time and sometimes AF only lasted a couple of days.

My point being not to gloat in the slightest, but to try and assure us that our bodies are very strange and are capable of anything. It's our bodies, not our minds or hearts, that know when the best time to conceive is.

I don't know if this has helped at all. I hope it has. I'm in the waiting game too now, until my body has recovered from the implanon and we can get a

xx