I think most men panic about able to support their family when the time for kids comes along. Corey went through the stage of holding off on having kids cause he wanted us ot be more financially secure. Personally I think no time is perfect to have kids. We had lots of D& M's over it and finally we decided if we waited to much longer we might miss our window and lucky we started ttc when we did as I ended up having fertility porblems and concieving Gemma took a little longer than we anticipated.

Keep talking things through with him and make sure you make it clear that your on his side. Goodluck and hopefully you guys can work this out soon.