thread: Could i be preg or am i grasping at straws?

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    Question Could i be preg or am i grasping at straws?

    ok, so i stopped bfing about 3 weeks ago, havent gotten AF yet..
    we had unprotected sex on the 14th of jan, i tested on the 10th of march andit was neg..
    ive ben feeling a little nauseous and been getting these strange "one cramps" every so often, just been feeling off altogther?
    i know im clinging to false hope, so let me down easy lol

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    Dunno - test again

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    Definitely test again to find out one way or the other .

    It could just be your body going back to "normal" hormonally and it's giving you a bit of grief? I hope it's what you want it to be

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    HAHA so much of me wants to test.. i think too much of me wants to be pregnant even tho its not really practical atm lol

    i heard somewhere it can take up to 6 weeks for AF to some back after stopping bfing, but i dont know. might just test for the sake of it lol.

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    I would be doing another test ....goodluck i hope you get the result you want

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    Smile

    With a beautiful daughter only 5 months old there is no way I would want to be pregnant. I would want to enjoy my first child a little longer

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    did u do another test hun? sorry only just saw this this morning.

    i got AF back when DD2 was about 3 months old, then it went on a 12 week hiatus, due again in 2ish weeks if everythings back on track. So it is possible that it is your hormones.
    But do another test to completely rule it out.
    90% of me wants another one now too 10% of me is like omg how will u cope.
    In all honesty dont panic if u are, miss A will cope fine, you will cope fine.
    i wish we had of had DD2 alot sooner than we had, its so much fun
    xxxx

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    I can still enjoy my first child if i have another

    and skye, i totally know what you mean. I want to have my babies closer together (rather than further apart.. if that makes sense lol)
    Like i said part if me wants to be, part of me doesnt. BUT it will happen when its ment to.
    Think i might do another test, if only to mind my mind at ease lol. Least i know if this one is neg then im defenitly not UTD.
    Thanks girls xx

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    Definitely do another test

    There is nothing bad about having them close together, you adjust and enjoy both of them equally. Plus they have a little friend to play with all the time

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    Wow Mum2Romone, your post comes across a little condescending, I hope that wasn't your intention

    Stevie-anne, I'd definitely be testing again!! I hope you get the answer you want and be sure to let us know how you go!
    xxx

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    Test again hun

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    i would test again good luck!

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    I agree, definately do another test. How exciting!
    Good luck.

    xox

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    well i just tested, and its a
    part of me is relieved.. part of me is disappointed..
    there'll be other babies in the future tho so im not too worried xx

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    oh u duffa hun, not sure if ur out of the woods yet.
    u should always test with FMU at this time of day ur levels would be very diluted!

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    I'd say, give it a week - and if AF hasn't returned, test again (if your strong enough )

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    we'll have to see hwta happens
    it was awhile ago when we actually did the deed (over 2 months ago now) surely if i was pregnant it would have come up this far along?