I'd say this is one time that other people's experiences would not be helpful for you as everyone experiences pregnancy different. Some women never feel sick. My husband and I decided to start TTC 3 months before our wedding. Thank god it took 2 cycles to get pregnant. I had hyperemesis starting at 7 weeks-17 weeks so bad I couldn't get out of bed, didn't shower for 5 days at a time, and brushed my teeth maybe once every other day because it'd make me puke. It was horrible and I wanted to die and actually contemplated terminating the pregnancy around 10 weeks for a split second just to get it to stop. I found out I was pregnant 1 week post wedding, and actually threw up on the second night of our honeymoon, at which time I assumed it was the chicken I ate but now I wonder if it was related to implantation hormones. I also looked pregnant at 3 months because of bloating. Some people don't show until 6-7 months. Your experience could go either way and if you do decide to TTC, I'd wait until 1 cycle pre-wedding, so that you avoid any morning sickness you may have if you got pregnant on the first try. Good luck with TTC and it'll all work out in the end, no matter what you choose to do.