wellit seems i've answered my own question........cause the answer is YES.

this morning i tested and got my BFP!!!! very excited and also very cautious praying this one is a sticky bubba.

thanks girls for your patience and understanding and getting me through the past couple of days.

just out of interest - this morning i tested with the 10miu pregnow and the 20miu first response. first response had the bfp but pregnow was still negative. come to the conclusion that the pregnow tests are crap, or not as good as they're meant to be at least.so i had to do a third test just to make sure and that one was also positive.

thanks again - much much appreciated.