I have told my sister in law cos i can ask her any questions. She is just wonderful and i have also told another good friend who is 2 months ahead of me. She had suffered a loss to so we have a bit of a connection there.
I see where you are coming from by not posting in the ttc after loss forum but i know i always enjoyed seeing positive news from others in there. And you were a support to everyone in there even if you didnt post all the time!
Feel free to PM if you like before we join the belly buddies area!