Hi Cassie, honestly, I think your body and hormones are very very confused!!!!!
Either take the pill responsibly at the same time each day, or not at all.
Just because they are tiny little pills, does not mean they do little things to your body.....
Of course your body is going to bleed when you stop taking the pill, or take it at the wrong time because of the drop of levels of hormones in your body. That's what the sugar pills are for.

I wish you all the best in your journey to have a baby if that's what you really want to do, but you need to make a decision to either stop or start taking your contraception responsibly.

Take care x