Renstar, good luck with your research. And I thought I was a bit obsessive. I spend half my day looking things up on the internet on the half chance that I get pregnant.
We are trying to TTC now (since November). May I say in a subtle manner? That means I am off the BCP and hubby agrees, but there really is no discussion. I don't know if that helps or hinders the obsession.
If things go well, I have decided that I will go public. We don't have a whole lot of money, especially after the move and with me not yet working. I will have to find a decent GP for general care and after stuff.

S.