Thanks for all of your advice and reassurance! I have taken everything onboard. I went to a new GP today who was excellent, she ordered a bizzilion blood tests, 14 in all! So at least now if there is something pysically up i will know. I have another appointment with her on Thursday to get results and for her to go through the next steps, she said that if I was over 30 she would send my straight to gyn but as I am young then we have some time on her hands (yes but I am impatient!). She also suggested that while all of these tests are happening that we should not be TTC and using some protection is this a strange request because I really dont want to stop if I am about to ovulate not knowing when the next time will be?? She mentioned this as I am due for pap etc, has anyone else had these tests and pap done while TTC with out any complications? It just seemed like an odd request.