12 wks is a very long time!! I am not too sure if I would be able to myself for so long but I am going to try to! I think I am going to be pretty scared telling my side of the family the exciting news because I know how they reacted when my older sis told them she was pg, but DP side is the easier side to tell but I can see DP mum not being able to keep it to herself, she will be a very excited grandmother!