getting my hopes up

[widdly]

hi sarah, hope u get ur BFP in no time! It is a really stressful and emotional time especially if it drags on for a year or more, thankfully the end product is worth it all though, it is hard when DH can't feel the same way you do, i guess we just have to remember that they are only men, they are on a completely different wave length to us women, they do their best to comfort us, i am sure it will happen for you soon, goodluck!

[~shazz~]

Elissa ~ hunny i never realised you were over due for AF i have absolutely ever thing i own crossed for you you know we are going to be egging you on to test now and either way we will be right by your side

[widdly]

shazz - thankyou so much for your support, it really means a lot to me, thanks. i did get up the courage to test tonight and got a BFN (of course,as if we would be clever enough to get pg that quickly!), so a bit bummed but not really bummed cause i want it to happen quickly, but bummed cause last time we ttc we were booked in for fertility tests, but didn't have them cause got BFP 2 weeks before appointment, so it is always in the back of my head that there very well could be a fertility issue there that we are unaware of. I guess what im trying to say is that i hate not knowing exactly what life has in store for us. I would be okay if i were told that Archie was gonna be an only child, then i would just get on with life and plan things with that in mind, but i hate the not knowing if or when we will have another bub. i am just terrible and starting to realise since having Archie that i do have some control issues that i never saw before! I need to keep reminding myself that the 'not knowing' in life is what makes it so exciting and special and that what will be will be whether i stress out or not.....so much easier said than done.

whoooaaa!!! sorry for that, i think i really needed to get all that out tonight, thanks again everyone for your support and friendship, we really do need each other during this stressfula nd exciting time.

Goodluck to everyone else who is in the TWW i have my fingers crossed for you all!!

[Sarah-William-And-Hayden]

thanks widdly dh is good support but just like you sasid they are on a diff leval fingers crossed for i didnt realise that you testing either good luck!!

[Sarah-William-And-Hayden]

wow i think you did need to get all that out
sorry to hear bout the bfnfor you it sux when you are looking at it and one 1 line shows up im here if you need some one to talk to sorry once again
fingers crossed for next month thinking of you
sarah

[~shazz~]

Elissa ~ hunny i'm sorry you got a Bfn this time round i'm sending every prayer and baby dust your way for this next try and like i said we are right there with all the way :hugs:

[Taurusa]

Sarah - I think there are lots of us around who feel like this, but i was never aware until this site.
Elissa - Have a wine and enjoy it while you can

I spent about an hour reading the herbal remedy strand yesterday and have got what feels like 1million tablets to take every day. Hopefully these regulate my cycle and give me that little edge i am needing. They have also made me feel a little happier after AF as i feel i am doing more to help. Check it out if you get a chance.

[widdly]

sarah - thankyou for the support, i still have my fingers crossed for you!!

shazz - thanks again, you are a beautiful person.

taurusa - had a giggle about just enjoying the wine while i can, that is a great way to look at it! i might just check out that herbal remedies thread, thanks, i hpe your getting yourself all warmed up for DTD in a couple of weeks!!!

[Sarah-William-And-Hayden]

hi girls how are you all this morning i hopoe that you are feeling a little better widdly the wine always helps i think lol

taurusa i know sometime yofeel like you are the only one but look on the bright side it takes time and it will happen when it is ment to just wish sooner than later would be good

to everyone
talk soon sarah

[ticklish]

Hi Widdly
How are you going? Sorry about the BFN.
Me, I am expecting AF today or sometime in the next five days. I am irregular like you, so really frustrating! I thought I'd be getting my chocolate treat today - might have to wait until Monday!!
PS. My DS is just one month older than yours.
TICKLISH