Shell,
How many times have you seen your FS? and in what way are you finding it hard to talk to him? I guess what I am trying to find out is if you have had time to feel comfortable with him or if he is just the type of doctor who tells you what to do without really listening? Or if you are the type of person who needs lots of reassurance but he is not giving it?
Your relationship with your FS needs to be a good one as sadly, sometimes we have to see them lots.
I had a gynae, who while he was quite nice, I just never felt like he was listening to me properly. I now have a lovely FS who I feel does listen and I feel really comfortable with. She is with Monash IVF. Do you see your FS at Monash Clayton?