Thanks girls for advice and birthday girl wishes!!!
I am slightly in denail I keep goign back to the no it can't happen...but!!! all the same best I go and get some testing done..the other part of me says if tis soo low it comes up as a neg it is'nt going to be succesful anyway..because I would have to be 8weeks???ish...we are just so busy and finding the time is hard I really hate dragging the kids into the docs especially with all the flu around at the moment..excuse, excuses..denial, denail...
babies are so gorgoeus and another one would make no difference to the clan...BUT also know I am finished...after Tilly they said no more babies... too much scar tissue... too much blood loss... close to rupture.... so it would be worst case for us if it came back as + plus mummy is too old and would'nt want to go through all those tests again..all the reasons why DH had the snip!!! anyway thanks and best I get in and find out for sure.