Thanks for the replies everyone man what a roller coaster hey. I am glad I am not alone though.
We are hoping for 3-4 children and even though I am only 26 and have plenty of time I still want them close together but I just didnt realise that it would come around this quickly.

principessa76 - your reply was helpful and its not selfish to think that way at all I am the same I was very lucky with Georgia and I am hoping to be the same again next time.