Hugs kel.... I have calculated that af should be due roughly from tomorrow til saturday... pretty big guestimation! I think you would have a chance of being utd with your first shag!!!! Couldnt think of a better word...sorry. Good luck hun either way.
Blackduckies, I am thinking about....propositioning DH, lol! Because he was so blase about me possibly being pg, it makes me think that maybe he's not so against it as he was. But I have to work out if it's what I really want too. Or if I just want a baby, not necessarily another child, kwim?? I'm so confused!
Mel, lol! Yeah, I'm thinking it would have been the first shag that would have done it, hehe!! I think af would be due around Saturday/Sunday cause I usually have a 28/9 day cycle. Maybe we could be belly buddies again, lol!!! Imagine that....
Thinking of buying a pg test to see if it would come up yet. I think I had + tests at this stage with my other pg's......probably should just wait for af! But I'm an impatient girl!
Hard not to test especially when you think you might be!!!! I guess this will be a telltale sign whether you feel relief or dissapointed if AF arrives??
I know what you mean about whether you want just the baby or another child, its a hard call I think??? either way you will feel comfortable with your decision in the end. You get used to the idea of another if it happens, or if you plan it.... and you get used to the idea if you decide not do it.. I have friends who thought they would love another baby and a couple of years on are very glad they did'nt do it, they have their lives to do the things they want, sometimes I have that little green eyed monster emerge when I hear some of what they are doing..but at the same time would'nt change my lot for anything...well except maybe labour????
Good luck either way...for the weekend or when you test, what will be will be.
I did a test this morning and it came back negative. Feeling a bit of relief and disappointment, LOL! Hows that for confused, hahaha!! DH was happy though. But then he also said if it happens it happens so he seems to be relatively unworried about it all! But I think he's more on the I don't want another baby side than the I do want another baby side! Where I'm thinking I might be the opposite....I will really have to dig deep and think about what I want. If we did have another our circumstances would need to change though. And if we did have another I would want it in the VERY near future. I would like all of my kids to be close in age and well....DS will be 2 in 9months time.
AAAwww sorry to hear that... I think you would have been more happy than sad if it was the other way around. Like you say lots of thinking, but maybe you should tell DH that you are feeling undecided, a bit of a heads up so its not a shock if you do turn around and say I have to have another baby!!!
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good luck making your decision hun xoxo
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