I have no idea about charting or anything, so I'm pretty clueless of when I might get pg. At the mo, DH and I are just using condoms as protection. He says he's going to get the snip and I refuse to go back on the pill or any hormone contraception for my own reasons. Besides it's his turn to sacrifice a little! While we are not ttc and DH doesn't really want another bub, we're not going to be devistated if I do fall pg again, Actually I definately would not mind in the slightest! (Although I have none of my baby stuff anymore!)
Anyhow....we DTD twice this cycle without protection. I had AF on the 1st til the 6th. We DTD unprotected on the 8th and 21st. My past cycles have been Oct-24days, Sept-28days, Aug-29days.
So I know it's definately possible that I could fall pg, but how likely do you (people who know about charts and cycles and all of that) think it could be??
TIA
Hi ya lovely!!!
I was in this position and find myself pregnant so I would say highly likely, its always when you are'nt trying this time around i thought I was past O so must have had a very long cycle which is unusal for me but I guess age played a part in that??? If you had a 24 day cycle you woul dhave DTD 2 days before O, so very likely, but if it was longer (your cycle) chances are getting a lot slimmer. DTD on the 21st unless you had a very long cycle you would have been past O so your chance would really be with the early DTD.
Good luck I hope you get your wish, that would definately spur DH on to get the job done.
Hi,
I did calculations based on the first day of your LMP - 01.11.09 and used 29 days as your cycle length. Statistically speaking your fertile period would be Friday, 13 Nov, 2009
- Wednesday, 18 Nov, 2009. That is not to be taken as 100% as you could have O'd early or late. Do you feel O pains?
HTH, looks like you're in the TWW
So how long would sperm survive in me for?? Up to, what 5ish days??? Really that long! Wow!!
Charliebrowngirl, I do feel O sometimes. I think I did this month, cause I remember complaining to my mum about having mid cycle period-ish pains. But I can't remember when that was exactly!
I'm kinda hoping I am pg now.....but I shouldn't get my hopes up the chances are slim and DH doesn't really want another...
Last edited by MrsFabuloso; November 21st, 2009 at 06:39 PM.
Fertility Friend is pretty good with giving answers you are looking for. Super sperm can live up to 4-5days.
A similar moment to what you're experiencing now resulted in me joining the TTC band wagon. Haven't experienced the joys of motherhood, but it made me realise how much I wanted to experience it.
Its hard when each others (DW & DH) wants/needs don't match up, I would love to have 3 children... only time will tell - have to have one first
Natural planning books will tell you 3-5 days but with big DD I only had sex once and at the end of AF and got preg, so that was close to 7-8 days out, I did'nt thinkit was possible but my OB said he has heard of stories 10 days out!!!!congrats to that super duper spermulator.
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