We started investigating why we weren't falling pregnant in 1998. We discovered both male and female infertility issues, but mine were the most problematic [azospermia] (sp?) which caused me to have problems with raising a child other than my own biological offspring. That took 5yr of counselling and once I accepted that although s/he wouldn't be biologically connected we'd still have a deep relationship, it took another few years of IUI and IVF cycles to result in the birth of our son in July. We still have known-donor sperm in storage and are debating if we should go again, but her age is now a factor, which is a subject for another thread.
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