Thanks ladies! That is actually really helpful. juniper76, I had no idea that charting could make a difference in your GP's perception of how long you've been trying! That's good to know. As well as the variance in O'ing. I have a somewhat short cycle so not sure how accurate the -14 day rule is for me. Teeki, I think you're right, I might get disappointed if we TTC for more than 6 cycles. Maybe one or two more without charting and OPKs, and then I'm giving in to my obsessive side! Thank you all.