DP and I would like another baby and given my age I really should start charting especially as DP is a shiftworker so DTD can be a timing problem in itself because he's often at work till 2am.

Anyhoo, I'm just not real good at routine and taking my temp at the same time each morning because my first priority is looking after DD (she still sleeps in our room). I have bought one of those saliva testers too.

So what I'm getting at is that I think it would be good for me if I involved DP in the process so that he could remind me to temp and/or saliva test and it would feel more like a joint effort rather than me monitoring it myself and dragging him into bed at the optimum time.

I am aware, though, that often partners feel like they are then DTD as robots just to conceive and it can put a bit of a dampener on things.

Just looking for advice/opinions/advice on how much you shared re charting/ovulating with your partner?