How often did you BD around your fertile days when you conceived?

[visitor1]

#3 we only DTD CD 14 and 15 of 28 day cycle

#1 and #2...no idea.....alot of the time!

[Arimeh]

Not sure about DS but we weren't particularly trying to fall pregnant so I would say probably once or twice..

Then with DD - DTD on day 9 and day 16 of a 28 day cycle - and going by the rule that girls survive longer - it was day 9's goods that made her!! lol

[BekZ]

DD 1 - Dtd 4 days before O
DD2 - Dtd 5 days before O

Only once both times. When ttc my last angel baby we dtd every second day during my fertile period for 3 months. This month I got a positive OPK and we did in the morning before O and the morning of O...still waiting for the result!!!

Spice = My friend was told by her fertility specialist that they were dtd too much..hows this, everyday from day 7 to day 15 for 18 months straight....They then booked in for IVF, they relaxed and she fell pregnant the next month...they dtd ONCE

[Sequoia]

Spice = My friend was told by her fertility specialist that they were dtd too much..hows this, everyday from day 7 to day 15 for 18 months straight....They then booked in for IVF, they relaxed and she fell pregnant the next month...they dtd ONCE

And yet my FS told us to BD every day a few days before and after O day. How amazing that info differs. The nurse told me quality over quantity since it only takes 1 sperm to fertilise and you want it to be of the highest quality.

[mbear]

This pregnancy ONCE. DTD on a sunday, ovulated on the following Thurs.

#1 - werent really trying. Not much though LOL
#2 - twice
#3 - 3 days before O.

[~mamaspice~]

I'm finding it really amazing how many of you were BDing 4-5 days before ovulation. Just goes to show that those lil swimmers sure can hang around for a while

Oh and BekZ, I know what you mean about your Dh being disappointed. Mine was disappointed it happened straight away too, he was hoping ot have to try for at least a few months
Oh and good luck for this month.

[Cassius2]

For our DD it was twice...4 days prior to O and 3 days prior....

[DANNIIM]

We BDed two or three days prior to Oing and that was all it took
Where as we had been trying for months before hand and we were BDing every day or second day and it just wasn't happening....just goes to show.

[lovemybubs]

with this one we DTD only once without using a condom and it was either the day before or day after ovulation.. dont remember exactly as we were having a break from seriously trying that month as we had a lot of social stuff on and i wanted to enjoy the bubbly!

[maybe baby]

only once a couple of days before O for all three pregnancies

[~mamaspice~]

Hmmm, thanks for your replies girls. Quite a few of you only DTD once or twice so it seems it's best to stick with quality not quantity

Hey BekZ yes I have heard that if you do it too often it lowers the sperm count so can make it harder to conceive.

I have a 30 day cycle and when we conceived Charli it was day 16. (which makes sense because they say you O about 14 days before AF is due - but then again statistically we should have had a boy - but it seems this little girl swimmer outrun the boys somehow, arimeh) I noticed last month though I had EWCM on day 14 and stilll there by day 16 but a little cloudy but it was still a 30 day cycle oh well best we DTD on days 13 & 16 me thinks JIC.

[BekZ]

YOu could use OPK's to help you pinpoint O

[~mamaspice~]

Yes, I have bought an OPK and Ive got the maybebaby. I think because it happened straight away last time I really want it to again and if it doesn't I'm going to be on a real downer. I know it is silly because it's normal to take a while, but I'm just a wee bit impatient