Hi,

We had this problem. We actually had two failed attempts then a big fight! I had mistakenly told DH that it was the window to fall pregnant. That was definitely a romance killer. My brother came over and counselled us and explained to me how hard it was for guys to feel under pressure, the media gives the wrong portrayal etc etc. We made up and without putting pressure on him it worked and we conceived that night.

Definitely don't tell him when the time is. Try not to act too crazy like we have to do it here and now. Maybe have a nice dinner together in a non-threatening way. Spend some time getting him in the mood. I would have to think that would be a winner. The pressure is what kills it. Good luck!