I had it with my first and was petrified about the thought of having it again. But as my partner and I figured, we TTC when DS was only 9 months because as much as he needed him, a baby was also easier to handle then say a toddler that was on the go, or if we waited until I was back to work before etc. I also knew better what worked and didnt, meals that were easier to bring up, hydration plans, things like a really soft mat and scented candles in the toilet etc all things that made having it easier to deal with. For us it was a matter of the longer we left it the least likely hood I go back to it if that makes sense.

Just so you have a good news story to, I've barely had m/s this time