sooo I thought I had made my decision, that I don't want any more babies. Partly because of what I went through last time with the loss of our little one and other reasons factor in as well...

DH and I have been discussing it for the past few days, he says he thinks he wants another one, AND our DS the last couple of days has been asking for a lil brother or sister (he isn't fussed on a boy or girl, he just wants a sibling lol)... then last night DH said, he doesn't want another baby because he thinks ds is now too old to get a good bond happening with a new baby

Well, since that sounded so final, I can't stop thinking that now I want another baby I don't know if its because we have reached a decision of not having one or if its because ds desperately wants a brother or sister... I don't know what to do, it is such a HUGE decision to make... I mean, I have only been in my new job for 6 months, so I won't get parenting leave (i'm only casual), we have bought a house and a new car, would a baby really mess everything up or am I being sillly???

How did you decide to have another or not have another?? did you ever regret your decision? Why did you decide what you did?

Please help me