thanks for your replies ladies I am still undecided, but I think, like you all say, I think I would regret not having another one. I will have another chat to dh tonight. I'm not worried about not earning money by not working, i'm more worried that I won't have a position to return to iykwim and have to go through the whole process of getting back into the work force when i'm ready.

the more i think about it, (which is all I can think about atm ) the more I think I want another.