Charlyfrog - thanks so much for your kind words and sticky wishes!

Facing up to my guilt at not coping was one of the really big steps I had to take in order to decide to TTC#2 - And you're quite right it is an affirmation to decide to try again. I believe this next precious little person chose us as his parents a lot time ago (I can feel that little spirit buzzing around me every so often - patiently waiting until I get my act together....)!

Thanks Charlyfrog, and blessings to you on your TTC journey too!