Onlyone - I completely understand how you feel and unfortunately charting does tend to place a more clinical angle on the business of ttc.

My point of view is if charting is placing too much stress or anxist on your ttc journey then don't do it. Reason being your less likely to conceive if you are stressed iykwim.

On the other hand once you start charting it can become obessive and you'll find it hard not to chart.