It's doing my head in already *Vent*

[BekZ]

Onlyone - I completely understand how you feel and unfortunately charting does tend to place a more clinical angle on the business of ttc.

My point of view is if charting is placing too much stress or anxist on your ttc journey then don't do it. Reason being your less likely to conceive if you are stressed iykwim.

On the other hand once you start charting it can become obessive and you'll find it hard not to chart.

[widdly]

My advice:

DONT CHART!!! Just BD when you or DH are in the mood and you will catch that egg when you leasts expect it. GL

[Gecko]

hi there,

i am also new to the whole TTC thing or i should say i just got my head around setting a time when i am ready to start (which will be Dec this year ) however i don't think i will be the charting temping person either - i agree that it takes the entire ?loving? out of it and makes it very technical/clinical.

I do want to mention thought, that i am only speaking for myself, don't want to offend anybody. I am a strong believer in "doing whats right for you" and therefore don't judge others if they are not on the same page

I have been looking for a thread like this ever since i joined so now that i found it i really hope it will keep on getting longer and i will pop in ever so often till i go off the pill and start my BD, only thing i am planning to do is the dentist, the folic acid thing and a trip to the gyn to make sure i got all the important injections ...

[onlyone]

widdly I could not have said it better