thread: Its so hard!

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Feb 2011
    55

    Its so hard!

    TTC conceive is so hard. I see pregnant women everywhere and small little babies, and get really upset to the point of being angry that its not me.
    A co-worker told me that she is pregnant this afternoon....it was hard to react as she wasnt trying at all and she is pregnant! Its just not fair.....

    Thank you for listening to my "Why isnt it me?" moment.

    And my body continues to play tricks on me and I am starting to get really annoyed with it!

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jul 2008
    Eastern Surburbs, Melbourne
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  3. #3
    Nothing like a cuddle from DD after a hard day's work!

    Oct 2007
    in my own world
    3,267

    totally understand your feelings, esp when you notice everyone around you is getting pregnant.


  4. #4

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    Big hugs sweety. I know it's hard. Our babies will come. I promise you. And when they do... Then they will know just how much they were loved and wanted from the very early days xxxxx


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  5. #5

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    Hi j-lo

    You are right. It is hard and frustrating. It doesn't matter if you have been trying for a month or two like yourself, or five to ten years like some of the lovely women on the Long Term Trying to Conceive threads.
    I think the only thing to do is try and stay patient and positive. And I know how hard that is too!!! The world is full of women who are pregnant, others who get pregnant easily and others who get pregnant without really wanting to. I think the only thing to do is be as happy as you can for these women and hope and pray your turn is next.

    Take care x

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    3,244

    it is frustrating & each cycle seems to take forever! when i was ttc i even saw a couple of number plates 'ttc' and 'utd'. used to make me want to

    i hope it's your turn soon

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    Sydney N.S.W.
    997

    Hugs it can be sooo hard and when you are TTC it seems that there are more pg women around and more people around you announcing pg's. Try and stay as positice as you can and vent on here when you need to xo

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Canberra
    1,788

    Oh J-LO, I hear ya love.

    Once you have that baby filter on it's all you can see. Like the universe is conspiring against you.

    I've had to change my thinking around and try and see that it's actually the universe trying to send me a message. Our minds and bodies are preparing us to be in that exact same position. Our extra-special babies are just taking a little longer to cook.

    TTC is the hardest thing ever. But you're not alone, I promise. BIG HUGS!

  9. #9

    Mar 2008
    Where dreams are now reality
    2,318

    it really isnt fair, is it?!? TTC is just an awful experience for so many of us but know one thing.....when your little miracle arrives, it will be the most amazing and breath taking moment of your entire life. Your miracle will be the most precious and special thing in the world and you will realise why it took so long to find just the right baby for you