BIG to you hun! xxoo Not good that I make you cry tho - lol! *kidding*

I'm so sorry to hear of the m/m - while I've never encountered one personally, someone extremely extremely close to me had the same thing happen to her and it was such an dreadful horrible experience for her to have to endure. NO ONE should ever have to go through that, and it makes me angry angry angry to know that so many do. It's just not fair..

The said person chose to labour her baby boy (they just 'knew' he was a boy - bless them) rather than have the D&C and whilst it took her some time for it 'to happen', I was with her when she gave birth and all in all she has come through it such a different person - in many many ways. Obviously her baby boy will forever be with her, and the pain will never go away, but she has grown so so much from such an awful experience. She says the best word to describe how she felt as she grew through the experience, right to the end, was empowerment. *cry*

You are such a strong, beautiful, empowered, extraodinary woman for having actually been through it and dealt with it - just remember that. You're special. xxx/ooo

I think the same thing, trust me re: the natural therapy!!! Unfortunately though, my GP doesn't share the same enthusiasm. Oh well, no point moping about it. Forward I keep trudging, one step and day at a time...

Take care,
Nicole