We too are TTC april 09 so know how hard it is to wait.... April is just soooo very far away... I would say the your DH just doesnt care if you fall now anyway, as he isnt been very pro active on not TTC....


I had heaps of mixed signs from BHL after DD2 was born as the WHOLE time I was UTD he said 3 is it I am going to get the snip once she is born... She came the snip never did, so after DD2 was 12mths I said I would like another baby and he said ok so he must have known in the back of his mind aswell that he wasnt quite as done as he thought he might be, even now BHL will know if I miss a pill ( it sits on the coffee pot to help me remember ) but it doesnt make him pull out so I guess if it happened now the world wouldnt end, I think as it normally takes us a while ot TTC to become UTD we get a little lazy...


I think you will just have to say that as you are no longer on the pill you are now TTC and see what he thinks about that.... It will either get him to use other things or not...