Hi and Welcome to BB,

Not sure what advice to offer for the antidepressant but I would recommend going off the pill and allowing a good 3 cycles (or more if you want) so your body has time to get those hormones out and your body time to start production again.

Great idea about getting onto the preconception/pregnancy supps early.

Perhaps speak to your GP about the other things and see what they recommend there may be something that you can change to instead of the current meds?

As for the public v's private thats really just a personal choice. I have gone public and will remain to do so for all my furture pregnancies.

Best of luck with your journey

Nae x