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  1. #1
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    Jun 2012
    South Australia
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    Oh dear I am so so sorry darling

    If it makes you feel any less sad, you are very fertile after a M/C. When I had mine at 4 weeks 5 days I fell pregnant straight away - within 2 weeks of M/C occuring, and went on to have DS.

    I'm so sad for you - I'm really sorry this happened
    thanks Blondie i had no idea you had a m/c too, i'm so sorry

    did you need to have a D&C? did you pass any clots or anything?


  2. #2
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    Sep 2009
    Brisbane, QLD
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    thanks Blondie i had no idea you had a m/c too, i'm so sorry

    did you need to have a D&C? did you pass any clots or anything?

    I was the same as you, felt really numb and sad of course but this is the way I chose to look at it.....everything happens for a reason, and it took away a hard decision that might have had to be made, if in fact the baby had something terminally wrong....as heartbreaking as it is it's your bodies way of saying that something wasn't quite right

    I was told for early losses like ours, things usually pass naturally...though period type bleeding. I didn't need a D&C, and I had some small clots but it was very similar to a heavy period and it went for 7 days. Then 3 weeks later my BFP, 9 months later DS. As I said, you are very fertile....so if it was me, I would be back on the wagon as soon as possible

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    Jun 2012
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    I was the same as you, felt really numb and sad of course but this is the way I chose to look at it.....everything happens for a reason, and it took away a hard decision that might have had to be made, if in fact the baby had something terminally wrong....as heartbreaking as it is it's your bodies way of saying that something wasn't quite right

    I was told for early losses like ours, things usually pass naturally...though period type bleeding. I didn't need a D&C, and I had some small clots but it was very similar to a heavy period and it went for 7 days. Then 3 weeks later my BFP, 9 months later DS. As I said, you are very fertile....so if it was me, I would be back on the wagon as soon as possible
    yeah we feel the same way. i kinda feel like a terrible person though... i still haven't shed a tear . we were at the hospital all day today, took some blood, my HCG level is now down to 11. they did another ultrasound still found nothing. i did just pass a small clot though!

    we just went to the chemist and purchased some blackmores conceive well gold, and extra folic acid, also some sylk lube (apparently is helps to sway for a little girl) will start taking those tomorrow morning.

    might start DTD in about 3 days

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    Sep 2009
    Brisbane, QLD
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    yeah we feel the same way. i kinda feel like a terrible person though... i still haven't shed a tear . we were at the hospital all day today, took some blood, my HCG level is now down to 11. they did another ultrasound still found nothing. i did just pass a small clot though!

    we just went to the chemist and purchased some blackmores conceive well gold, and extra folic acid, also some sylk lube (apparently is helps to sway for a little girl) will start taking those tomorrow morning.

    might start DTD in about 3 days
    Honey it's OK, everyone expresses their feelings differently, so don't feel bad No one is going to think your a terrible person if you don't cry.

    Good on you for going back to get the all clear with BT and U/S... it's good for peace of mind

    I think you made some wise purchases

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    Jun 2012
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    Honey it's OK, everyone expresses their feelings differently, so don't feel bad No one is going to think your a terrible person if you don't cry.

    Good on you for going back to get the all clear with BT and U/S... it's good for peace of mind

    I think you made some wise purchases
    thanks babe definitely!! we needed that confirmation to 100% move on and TTC again.

    SOOO are you going to find out the sex of your bubs? or is it going to be a surprise?

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    Oh honey i've only just seen this thread again.

    I'm so sorry this happened Noone should ever have to go through losing a baby

  7. #7
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    Jun 2012
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    Oh honey i've only just seen this thread again.

    I'm so sorry this happened Noone should ever have to go through losing a baby
    thanks Hope means a lot. we'll just hope the next one sticks

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    Sep 2009
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    thanks babe definitely!! we needed that confirmation to 100% move on and TTC again.

    SOOO are you going to find out the sex of your bubs? or is it going to be a surprise?
    D
    Finding out again i'm too impatient! LOL

  9. #9
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    Jun 2012
    South Australia
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    D
    Finding out again i'm too impatient! LOL
    hahaha so am i!! i think you're going to have a girl!! (mostly because i know you DTD 4 days-ish before O? if i can remember correctly xxx