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  1. #1

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    Over 40 and successfully conceived? Roll call :)

    Another failed IVF and feeling very down. I am 40 and that, along with my high BMI seems to be my biggest issues. I would love to know how many of my fellow BBers have conceived and had a successful pregnancy aged 40+. Naturally or through Assisted Conception, it doesn't matter, I just need something to stop me from feeling like giving up

    Thanks.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    743

    I was 39 when I conceived my little man, took a year.
    Last year my friends both at the age of 43 had little people (one a boy and one a girl), after about a year of trying.
    Don't give up,
    Hugs,

  3. #3
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Don't give up hunni, not just yet, I'm right behind ya! I'm sure there are a lot of women who have fallen preggers after 40. I know one close to home, she's 43, had a child who is 12 now and then she got preggers naturally and just had a baby. THERE IS PLENTY OF HOPE!!!!!!!!

  4. #4

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    I'm the result of a 40+ conception and I have a little brother too (little brother is almost a foot taller than me but he'll always be my little brother lol).

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    3,407

    A GF of mine who turned 41 in August has just conceived naturally... She had twins through IVF about 5 years ago.

    Don't give up Hun

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    Mornington Peninsula, Vic
    1,624

    My sister conceived naturally at 40, her bubba is due in January. Hugs xxx

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    in the garden
    3,767

    My younger brother is an IVF baby, Dad was 49, and his DP was in her early 40's, 41 I think.


  8. #8
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    Apr 2007
    Recently treechanged to Woodend, VIC
    3,473

    I was 40 when I conceived DD2 on second (natural) attempt. DP was 47.

    I've done my family tree and lots of women in my family have had babies in their forties.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
    5,039

    My BFF had a baby thru ivf age 40, she is a lovely 8 yr old now

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Sydney
    7,896

    In my mothers' group when I had DD there was one 40 yr old pg mum-to-be who had successfully conceived through IVF (first baby, DH 50). Another had conceived naturally at 42 after several m/cs (also had a 12 year old DD). Last year, one of my friends had her third DD at 40, also has a 5 and 7 year old.

    In our area, having a baby at 40 is common. Me having a baby at 29 was not at all common. At 34 I'm just hitting average.

  11. #11

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    Thanks everyone

    All of these wonderful stories help immensely!!

    I don't feel quite as hopeless now. I will keep coming back to read this thread when I feel too old to conceive.

    Thanks x

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
    965

    My mum is 42 nearly 43 and had my little sister in feb 2011. She also had my brother in 07 (38 or 39??) She also fell pg at 40-41 but had an abortion. So 3 pregnancies between 38/9 to 42.

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    Registered User

    Mar 2009
    2,269

    I wouldn't be here without my Grandmother having my Mum at 41

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    Feb 2007
    Wonderland
    5,383

    My Mum had me at 40

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    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
    5,039

    I didn't even think of the Playgroup mums. One of the ladies there went to the dr's cause she couldn't stand this menopause business ROFLwhen the dr told her she was 12 weeks pregnant! She had a 12 yr ds and an 8 yr old dd and had lost twins a few year earlier. It was a lively surprise for the family. She was 42!

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Sydney
    7,896

    Just thought I'd pop in with another success story...

    A gf of mine had numerous rounds of IVF to get her DD (now aged 6) and her DS (aged 2). She's just told me that she's 6 wks pg with an oopsie bub conceived without any help! She turned 40 last month.

  17. #17

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    I love this thread

  18. #18

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    I read an old magazine article last week about a woman who conceived at 50. She tried AC but it didn't work so she gave up. She thought her period went missing because of menopause but her husband suggested she pee on a stick after she went to a party and felt sick and she got a BFP.

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