Just thought I'd update....I caved and tested early and have a very faint bfp, I think I'm about 11 dpo at the moment, still feeling pretty nervous, especially after my last two pregnancies ended in m/c, just have to take one day at a time I think. I've been getting mild cramps on and off since about 8 dpo, tender breasts, tiredness and a little nausea. I hope this is your month too!