I want to tell you a spooky story that happened just right now, that might bring you to a momentary tear, so Im just letting you know in advance.
Here I am scanning Belly Belly to read 2ww diaries to see if I can find any more incriminating evidence that a baby is on its way this time, when all of a sudden a childs toy at my mothers house that doesn't get played with goes off! ( a few notes of "Now i know my ABC's"-or "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star".)NB- How i wonder what you are which is what Im doing!!!
Now I'm going to tell you why thats spooky!
Last Christmas my younger sister was heavily pregnant. It was a baby girl. We were all so excited as she only has an adorable son.
Mum said this toy would chime off all on its own through the entire 9 months.
Earlier this year my sister had the baby and we were all devistated by the outcome, but the toy never chimed again since the birth. The baby had a 1 in 6 million congenital defect with no chance of survival that happens at the time of conception and it was neglected to be picked up in any scans! All we knew was that my sister was abnormally huge (extra fluid)for the stage of her pregnancy that we all scratched our heads over?
It has been a misurable year for the entire family, and the family has had to have incredible strength to survive the emotional rollercoaster of greif and loss and accepting that its just the process and yes toes will be stepped on while everyone deals with it. Its not just the Parents that go through it, it effects the entire extended family in some sort of way.
The toy hasn't been touched for years, the house is full of people and including 4 boys (other sis's kids too), and if any vibrations were going to set it off from boys running a muck through the house, why hasn't it gone off before just now!
But I'm spooked because Im in limbo about if Im pregnant or not, Im on Belly Belly and it's like the toy is a message from my Nanna saying "Yes you Are"!
Im really spooked, but I hope it is!
B.J
Last edited by BonanzaJellybean; December 29th, 2009 at 05:03 PM.
OMG, well i'm even more spooked that i was thinking of my Nana throughout your thread then got to the very end where you mention your Nanna ... as my entire time reading it i had an overwhelming feeling to tell you this following story ....
when i got back home from the GP having done blood tests and then waiting for results to see if i was pregnant after 2.5years of TTC for our 1st bub, as soon as i arrived home i felt i needed to look at the only photo i had of my beloved Nana whom passed away when i was only 5, and when i looked at the photo the strangest thing happened she gave me the biggest smile and right then i knew i was pregnant (whereas in the photo she is actually NOT smiling, IYKWIM) ... anyway, then the next morning i received the phone call from my GP that i was finally pregnant ... as odd as it may sound i believe in my heart it was my Nana telling me i was pregnant
............ BONANZA, I HOPE IT'S THE SAME FOR YOU VERY, VERY SOON
God bless Nannas, I LOVED mine to bits! When she died so did my best friend! If I am PG and am going to light a white candle for her! She has probably been looking after my 'child in waiting' with the angels to come down.? and I know she knows that it would make me so very happy and not to take any notice of my family who think I am too old and I wouldn't cope!
And thanks everyone for your blessings.
BJ
Last edited by BonanzaJellybean; December 29th, 2009 at 05:09 PM.
... Hey say what , ... i was 39.5years old when i became pregnant with my 1st born, even had DD 4mths past my 40th birthday, infact i was 25weeks pregnant at my big 40th birthday bash ... (had a drug-free birth too) ... so, Bonanza YOU go tell 'em to shove that nonsense talk somewhere else or send your family around to my place and i will give 'em a good-talking to !!!
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your niece How heartbreaking. But... how awesome would that be if the toy's chiming IS telling you something!! I had a similar situation a couple of years ago... DD1 was a baby and she had a toy that made noise when you pulled it (it had about 10 or 12 random 'boing' etc noises that would chime when you pulled the ends apart), and the day after DH and I conceived our second, it started chiming two or three times a day... while it was put up on a shelf, not being touched! I knew straight away I was pregnant (nothing to do with the toy at first, I just had *that* feeling), and the damn thing just kept singing out in the middle of the night, up on the shelf, and during the day when it wasn't being touched, every day until Christmas Eve when we lost the pregnancy at around 7 weeks. After we got home from the hospital to get blood tests, it only ever chimed when DD1 was playing with it. Soo... you may well be in luck All the best hun, hope the New Year brings a wonderful new life for you to cherish!!
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, ... i was 39.5years old when i became pregnant with my 1st born, even had DD 4mths past my 40th birthday, infact i was 25weeks pregnant at my big 40th birthday bash
... (had a drug-free birth too) ... so, Bonanza YOU go tell 'em to shove that nonsense talk somewhere else or send your family around to my place and i will give 'em a good-talking to !!!
Thanks smiles! They have hurt me so much in the last 15 years!
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