Thanks Limeslice, I cant say I have thought about that. The douch info and tampon thing is on the gender swaying TTC thread but that link is broken so I cant see it.
I have been doing the diet change thing and do have an acidic environment according to the strips ( Im not sure what they recomend to be the right number mine ranges between 5-6 ) I just wanted to do everything I could to up the chances and It was on here so was curious.
Thanks for your advice