Sorry about your losses

I tried Vitex to regulate cycles. I thought my LP was a bit short (11-13 days). What I didn't realise is that Vitex can affect your estrogen levels. I had a CD3 blood test that showed low estrogen and stopped the Vitex. I have no idea about what effect it actaully had.

It may be worth while getting some blood tests done - CD3 and 7DPO. Also worth talking to a naturopath who specialises in fertility re: Vitex. Or try acupuncture/TCM - I don't know the cost, but have heard some great things. btw - no doctor should proscribe Clomid etc without you and your partner having some basic tests.

re: waiting times, if you've been trying for 9 + 5 months, then that's more than a year (unless I've misinterpreted). With 3 m/c's there should be more follow up testing, if you haven't had it done. See a specialist about getting a recurrent m/c panel done

GL