Hey

I've just joined this forum, i came on here to get some advice, by people who know what they are talking about. There is a wait to get into see my doctor. I keep getting told different things

I was fooling around with my guy. We didn't have intercourse. He fingered me, and im 90% sure there would have been sperm on his fingers (very fresh). It also happened on the day i was most fertile.

I am aware that these 'symptoms' may be due to other stuff (been worrying a lot lately).

For the past three weeks, ive been feeling, very tired and have a little trouble sleeping (more than usual), lost my appetitie, constantly feeling sick to the stomach /nausea (like im goin to throw up), dizzy. The feeling sick feeling is getting to much. I haven't actually been sick yet though. I feel sick when i wake up, before i eat, after i eat.

All the above came about 4-5 days after the 'fooling around'. I woke up one morning, extremely early, like out of a nightmare, with i feeling i was going to throw up.I was fine the day before.

I didn't think it was possible to get pregnant this way, but i keep getting told it is. I even got my period - but still getting told so.

My period was NOT normal. Mine has always been very regular. Ive never had a period like this. I was relived when it came, but it wasn't right. It started off brown (never is on the first day). the next day, where it should have been heavy, wasn't. it wasn't even a quater of the same heaviness. Usually the first 2 days when i wake up in th morning is very heavy. There were just a few spots on the pad. It only last 3 days. It always last 7.

As i said, didn't think u could get pregnant that way, as we didn't really have sex, but would it be a good idea to get a home test anyway, or just wait until next month to see if my period comes?

Any advice would be nice I keep taking it from people who dont really know what they are talking about!

thanks,