Thanks renstar I know 29 isnt old and wouldnt want anyone to think that it is.... It is just that when you had your 1st at 21 it seams much older than it is to be UTD again... Plus if we follow our normal TTC pattern it could take us a year or two...

As for money I have always thought you dont know what you dont have... As we dont know whats its like to only have one or two kids we cant ever know how much money we would have, as we spend what we have according to what we get....

I think I might have to have a talk to BHL when he get home and see what he is really thinking....

One things for sure we would TTC until we move and after my sisters wedding in March just incase we make the impossable happen and get UTD 1st go ....