Hey hun, I understand what your going through as I had be trying for over a year and nothing. On and off birth control I think had something to do with this, I bought the clear blue ovulation test which comes up with a blank circle if your not ovulating and a smiley face if you are, as soon as I saw the smiley face, we baby danced and a few weeks later my positive pregnancy test!! I was starting to give up hope that I could conceive, I would recommend clear blue ovulation test to anybody!! And keep positive! My thoughts are with you