I am sitting in your baot with DH. I do have 2children though. Have being trying ttc 10months. Have you used ovulation predictor tests, taking your temperature and charting whats going on with your body (like cervical mucous, back ache etc?). I would suggest trying these and keep trying for a few months. If in another few months your not pregnant I would go see your dr about it and get a referral to a gyno or fertility specialist. Unfortunately and I guess for good reason in some cases the dr wont do anything about not getting pregnant before 18months or 2years if your under a certain age which I think is 35 some maybe 30. I would like to go to the dr but I know they will say come back in 12months time. GL I hope you get pregnant soon. It feels like such a looooong time when your ttc.