We're ttc baby number 2 as well, ds is now 11 months old, so I'm kinda in the same boat you are lol

On the other hand, my little half sister (now 4) and half brother (now 3) are 11 months apart, and although my stepmother finds it difficult as an older mum with arthritis and carpal tunnel, she wouldn't change it (mostly lol, she occasionally jokes about wishing my brother had waited another 3-5 months before arriving as my little sister has some learning difficulties).